my babys dad just got out of prison, i waited for him, and now he is in rehab for a drug problem, he was very abusive toward me in the past still talks down to me now, wants me to buy him everything and gets pist when i dont, what is the likely hood of him changing? will he treat the next this bad too?What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?Think of your baby. You know he won't change unless he is really commited to his treatment. And that could be many more times back in rehab.
If he doesn't care to get himself better for you and the baby, then my guess is he'll be back in prison.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?he will not change. my advice is to leave him alone or go and get your self a black belt in karate or learn judo.some type of self defense so when he becomes abusive you can defend your selfWhat is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?%26quot;what is the likely hood of him changing?%26quot;
Slim.
%26quot;will he treat the next this bad too?%26quot;
Of course. Prison doesn't rehabilitate people, it only makes them angrier. It gives them %26quot;The world is out to get me%26quot; syndrome. Few convicts ever say to themselves, %26quot;Wow, I really messed up. I think I'll fly straight from now on.%26quot; Most of the time they get frustrated at how society treats convicts and wind up back in jail.
Stay away from him. Try to get full custody with only SUPERVISED visitation rights. It would be better if his parental rights were stripped all together. Your child doesn't need to be exposed to that kind of stuff.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?He really isn't going to change, and anyway, it's down to him to show you that he has, not slip back into his old ways. Do NOT let him in your house or back into your life as he will eventually hurt you and maybe even this time the baby too. You have a duty of care to that child that over-rides any love you have for this man.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?He will not treat you better.
If he cared then he would be treating you good from the very beginning.
Also women are treated this way because they allow themselves to be.
Yes he will treat whoever he is with this way.
And he will continue to treat you this way.
Baby daddy or not say goodbye and get out of there for good.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?Well you've already said he STILL talks down to you now, right? So why are you even asking if he's going to change or if he has changed? You answered your own question already. Guys like this almost never change and yours obviously hasn't. Nobody deserves this. Nobody deserves to be treated this way despite anything he's telling you.... whether he's telling you that you don't deserve any better. You do. And yes, I'm sure he'd treat anyone else he was with this way. Guys like this don't know any different or any better and they very rarely change. Please don't allow yourself to be treated this way.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?Anytime you are waiting for someone to change you are wasting your time
A more pressing issue is why do you want to be with a man who abuses you... especially when you have children. You need to set the example for them and let them grow up in a healthy environment.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?The change can happen if he wants it to. And don't enable him to continue on this path. You have to put your foot down and live your life the way you feel it needs to be lived. Tell him you don't like the way he talks to you, talk to me and not at me. In order for him to change so do you. It's up to you to take that responsibility to change the situation for the the greater good of you and the baby. Ask if this is wroth it to you and the baby? Is this what you want? You know the answers already, so make the changes. I wish you the best.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?you need to raise your standards......and by the way he'll never change,don't mistake his rare sweet talk(i assumed it) for genuine behavior....he'll stay this wayWhat is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?Slim to none. I'd say good riddence to the loser.What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?I'm pretty sure that Hell will freeze over first...What is the likely hood of a 39 year old man changing his ways and not being abusive?It is very difficult for anyone to change..I dont belive people can change alone...perhaps with the help of God...they need to become more spiritual and realize their problems...they need to want to change...and even then its difficult...Dont let anyone abuse you or make you feel like you're less...you do not deserve to be treated that way...I know you must love him to put up with him...but its not worth it...what kind of example is he to your baby?
For you and your childs sake move on...it is very rare for someone like that to change...
